Working Full Time and Homeschooling
One of the most common questions I’m asked about my family’s lifestyle is, “How do you work full-time and home school?!” I explain that some in my post about working full-time and home schooling. I sense, however, that many people still don’t quite understand how we do it. (And let me remind you that it doesn’t always all get done!)
I will share a random day-in-the-life of working full-time and home schooling that shows how I fit it all in. I’m choosing Monday as the day of the week to share because we don’t have soccer practice on Monday and I’m usually working at the office instead of from home on Mondays.. On Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, my oldest has soccer and I work with my younger two on supplemental learning. I do the bulk of my teaching on Monday, Friday and Saturday or Sunday. On Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, the boys are practicing what they’ve been taught on the “teaching days”.
So, here’s a typical Monday . . .
5:00am–I get up, make breakfast and get ready for work. I use this quiet time to get myself mentally ready for the day and to work on my blog.
6:20am–I leave for work.
8:00am–My husband leaves for work. (He helps anyone who is up early with school if they need it.) My sons wake up, have breakfast and get started on their school work. After their school work is done, they do their chores. We have a One Note page that I keep on the OneDrive and I can check on their progress from work. I also have nanny cams set up, so I know that they are on task and we can quickly communicate through the cameras quicker than a phone call. They are usually done with school work and chores by noon.
12:00pm–Lunch for me or if I have to run an errand I do so around this time. The boys are allowed to have screen time, outside time or other leisure time after finishing chores and school work.
3:00pm—I come home and the boys help me with dinner. Once dinner is started, we sit down at the table and do history (30 minutes), science (30 minutes) and “emotional intelligence” reading (20 minutes). Then I teach my oldest any new concepts needed and help him with anything he needs more guidance on from previous lessons. If there is time left and they need it, I work with my youngest two on their individual studies. Usually, though, I reserve Tuesday and Thursday evenings for working with them.
4:30pm–Dinner! (I make dinner early consistently because three nights per week we have to be out the door for practice before 6pm and my oldest likes to eat a small dinner before practice and a small dinner after.)
5:00pm–We clean up after dinner. If there is any unfinished homeschooling for the day, we work on it during this time.
7:00pm–I get my lunch and clothes ready for the next day if I’ll be working from the office. I make sure the boys folders are in order for the next day.
8:00pm–I try to be in bed by 8pm. I take about an hour to relax by watching Netflix or answering emails, etc.
9:00pm–Lights out for everyone!
As you can see, we do not attempt to replicate school at home. If I wanted my children to have a structured school day I would put them in school. Home schooling doesn’t take much time, especially if children are comfortable with a relaxed setting.
As well, you can see that I’m not moving at a frantic pace to get everything done. I have a plan and a routine. I stick to it and it works. To save time and keep my focus on what’s important I do not take phone calls during the week while I’m home and you won’t find me parked in front of the TV during prime time. I put my phone on my nightstand when I get home from work and take a quick peak before bed for any missed emergency calls or texts. Most of our family members get a special ring tone on our home phone, so we don’t even look at our home phone during the week unless it has the “special ring”.
As for the TV (aka, the biggest time waster in your home!), I just say no. We got rid of cable and now use services like Netflix and Hulu exclusively. As a result, I have to keep away from spoilers because I’m still watching new episodes in the middle of summer, but I’m not spending my evenings in front of the TV when I should be teaching my children!
If you are considering home schooling your children while working a full-time job, rest assured that it can be done. Be aware, though, that my children are older now and I was with them full-time when they were younger. My children are pretty self-motivated and don’t complain about school work. You may have a different dynamic in your home that needs to be addressed before working full-time and home schooling will be successful for your family.
In conclusion, working full-time and home schooling does require stamina some days. I wouldn’t say it’s much more than the average parent has to deal with when it comes to homework, though! Truthfully, teaching and learning alongside my children is one of my top three favorite things about motherhood, so it’s a labor of love without doubt.
Check out How to Work and Homeschool for more information!